And here’s why.
The Twin Flame paradigm is a dimensional state of awareness. It is inherently rooted in separation – twin meaning two. Within this state of awareness, two cannot become one. It would finitely change the paradigm. Two become one, and thus it would become One Flame. But this is not possible by virtue of the label TWIN Flame.
The Twin Flame experience is the default. Trauma bonding and replication/repetition.
One cannot have a healthy, loving relationship if still in a Twin Flame paradigm.
One cannot serve two masters.
It is, and always has been, a useful tool in the ascension process, because its whole purpose is to unify two polarities, separation consciousness. It is an ascension tool, a gift. It is likely the most potent way for ascension. It is not the only way however, although it is likely that all ways to ascension can fall under the label, because all ways to ascension address and unify separation consciousness.
But Twin Flames will never unify. They cannot. The dimensional state of awareness is limited to two.
What ends up happening is that, little by little, layer by layer, one clears distortion, veils, illusions. But one also becomes familiar, and feeds and fosters attachment, with the dimensional state of awareness, because in truth, it is everywhere in the world. It is of the world. It is and has always been. It is what we know. And as such, it is programmed in the most deepest of ways. Everything in life has been a Twin Flame, because it was never about the incarnate. It was about the energy. And in truth, we know nothing. Only God knows. To think one knows more than God, is not the answer and will only lead to the fall.
The paradigm is an ideal of perfection not yet attained. Yet that in itself is a lie, for everything that is, is already perfect. The Creator has made it so. And so, to deny that anything is not already perfect, as it is, is ultimately to turn away from the truth of the Creator and that which was Created.
This message isn’t for everyone, because the Twin Flame journey is a necessary one. Its power lies in its ability to empty the self until one becomes nothing. From nothing can everything then be manifested, by the Grace of God. This message is for those who are at the end of the line. Who have let go of everything, who have become empty, who have surrendered to God. Not my will, thy will be done. But yet, cannot experience lasting harmony in a relationship with another. This is one’s advice.
Let go of the Twin Flame dynamic. Let go of the energy plays, let go of the gossiping, let go of soul tribe. Let go of the paradigms, the mind games, the understanding and innerstanding. Let go of the influence from outsiders on your life and your relationship. Sometimes we have to stop turning to others for answers, and turn directly to God. One cannot serve two masters. One cannot turn to another incarnate for the answers, because ultimately, that incarnate has its own program, its own self. God is the only one that can help you. Eventually, one sees how picking up energy plays, causes chaos in your actual living reality. Eventually, one sees how dissecting your relationship and the energy plays causes more chaos and energy plays. Eventually, one sees how one has been damaging the gift that was gifted by God, victimizing the innocence that is. Maybe it’s not them, maybe it’s you.
One cannot play in the realms of distortion if one wants to walk with God. One cannot receive the blessings of God if one chooses to see that they are not already here.
Everything will look like distortion. Everything will seem like people are trying to hurt you, to take advantage of you, to use you. Everything will look like manipulation. Everything will feel unsafe. Everything will play on the weapon of fear. It will make you question everything in your life, especially everything good in your life. It will make you vulnerable to the things people say about you. It will make you susceptible to envy and jealousy. It will make you feel unsafe. It will make you feel abandoned. Used. It will make you feel like running every time there appears to be a problem. Pack your things and be ready to leave. It will make you live in fear that the next moment, everything could change, everything could be over. You will lose. It will have you thinking that no one could love you, that you are unlovable, not good enough. It will have you compromising yourself. It will have you trying to appease others for validation, support and love. It will have you falling, over and over again.
The next place, the next time, the next moment, the next person, place or thing. A perpetual state of waiting for perfection, which already is.
In that realm, in those realms, one cannot see God, one cannot see the blessings.
Just like we learned how to set boundaries during the ascension process, to stop creating more of the same, eventually we have to set boundaries with those energy plays, even if they come from the most well-intentioned of place, to stop creating more of the same.
You can’t serve the Twin Flame dynamic and God. One cannot serve two masters. Besides, God gives the best advice anyway. Why would you want anything less.
No one talks about what happens after ascension. Ascension is about going up, to rise or increase to higher levels, values, degrees, frequencies and states of awareness. But what happens when we get there. Some may say that it’s infinite, that one can keep ascending infinitely. Others may say that we die, physically, because the ego has been dying the whole way up. Others may say that we meet God and cannot know what comes next.
What I have come to realize, is that, after ascension, we have to come back down. One cannot live in the clouds. The finite human experience still exists, and it’s what we’re here for. What can one be if one is living in the clouds, or the mind. Life doesn’t happen there. We have to come back down to the earth. And this, is the de-scension. To descend.
And trust, we are not coming down the same way we went up. The process was perfect. We are forever changed. That was the whole purpose. To become the Light. But it’s time to humble that spiritual ego and come back down to earth and live God’s will. Not my will, thy will be done. The Light is needed in the world, and it’s not going to happen playing mind games with soul tribe. It’s going to happen by walking by faith, with God in front, con Dios adelante. Eventually one has to cut everything off and just go directly to God. No middle man, no mind games, no other incarnate. Just God.
Everything is always perfect. The process is always perfect. And I wouldn’t be honest if I said throw the whole Twin Flame journey away. Because it’s not my will, it is thy will be done. And if God needs you to go through the process to get to the Creator, then that’s the process. But if it gets to a point where you see yourself destroying that which has been gifted by God, then take a step back and allow clarity to come. Maybe it’s time to let some things, some ways of thinking, some addictions, and some people, go. Surrender, and let go.
Come back down to earth, by the Grace of God, enarmoured with the love of the Creator in one’s heart. There’s so much to enjoy here. There’s also so much to do, and be, here. One reaps in the harvest only by the Grace of God, but the harvest is also reaped on Earth, in the physical realm, not in the clouds.